A new addition to my links in my sidebar is a link to my events on Upcoming. It used to be called upcoming.org and that URL still works but since being bought by Yahoo!, it is now at upcoming.yahoo.com. So why am I writing about a web service that is a couple of years old? Well I thought I would mention what a difference it made in my life but first the back story.
Jordon and I have been married for a decade and during that decade of being married and a couple of years of dating, I have never planned a night out for us. I have tried to do it and it has been a source of conflict for me over the years but I am terrible planning night outs for us. For me I am pretty content to come home, make some dinner and drink a cup of tea which channel surfing. Pretty boring and it drives Jordon crazy. The weirdest thing is that this blog is full of stories about us going out and having a really good time which makes it sound like I could be a lot of fun but I am really not. In the past I would feel bad about never planning anything for Jordon and I and try to come up with suggestions. Here is what I always came up with.
- Go out for a walk with the cameras.
- Go out for a walk with the cameras.
- Go out for a walk with the cameras.
My other solution was to promise to plan something and then panic after Jordon didn’t want to do the above three suggestions again. Crying helped my case.
Jordon knows that I like to do things but am a terrible planner so we sat down and started to look around Saskatoon web sites for things that we wanted to do as a couple or with friends and even things that I wanted to do by myself. As we found things, we added the events to my profile (or his) on Upcoming. It was fun to do and it brings some closure to my schedule and forces me to plan better as well. I love basketball if we hadn’t made it firm, I never would have started to go to Huskies basketball games. It forced me to pick a day to see an art exhibit at the Mendel I was talking about, and reminded me to book a day off to continue enjoying a family tradition with Jordon and Mark. While looking around I also decided to take in something that I probably never would have otherwise. When I can look at what I am doing a couple of months in advance, it takes some pressure off of me but also it inspires me to sit down regularly and explore what else we can do as a couple and as a family. Those I find compelling enough to take in, I add them to my profile and the site for others to discover.
It isn’t just us that is adding events to Upcoming. Here are all of the listings for Saskatoon which does give some suggestions as well. It also has some other cool features like allowing you to integrate Flickr photos with events you have attended and the ability to see what your friends are attending.
Of course it is free to join up and if you are so inclined to follow my events, become my friend.











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